Good relations means: understanding … Cooperation … Harmony … Tolerance … Response
In order to be understood by people
Understand yourself
* What do you want?
* What do you care?
* Clear what pleases you?
* Clear what angers you?
* When to say yes and when to say no?
You are one of the people and what affects you affects them.
Understand yourself
What do you want from others?
* To treat you with respect.
* Feel Bohmitk.
* To understand the front of your eyes.
* To observe your interests and your desires.
Understand what your interested in?
* Your interests, physical and moral integrity.
* Desires and hobbies.
((Beginning of the communication))
Out the limits of yourself and your interests and desires
When you say: I first … Response would be: but I am.
When you say first … Response would be: You, too.
((Easy entrances to the minds and hearts))
[1] respect and appreciation.
* We respect the great and his office because he is important.
* Do you know one person in the world believed that it is not important?
Q: So agreed with the other person that is important and will agree with you on everything.
[2] tolerance and the search for an excuse.
Q: How do people blame the mistakes that you fall in?
* We see our mistakes and find a small excuses the mistakes of others while they are great and inexcusable.
* Make correct the error seems easy and renewed confidence Palmkte.
[3] Understand the attention of the other person.
* All people have always believed that his views on the right and logical.
* Even if the other disagreed with the opinion and make sure that an error try to understand the front of his view,
* Disregard for the opinion of others Idvham to the resistance.
[4] Look for common factors.
* There are always points agreed upon by everybody, including Scurry do not focus on points of disagreement.
Do not speak of yourself, but talked about the common good.
[5] sincere admiration and praise.
* No matter how bad a person must be a trait worthy of admiration and praise.
* Search in the other person on the positive side, honestly and be extravagant in their praise.
* Do it honestly does not turn up for the matter to the hypocrisy.
[6] addressed the noble motives.
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* May disappear under the rubble of noble motives and interests of greed, but not non-existent.
* Addressing the humanitarian aspects of the person and will surprise you more than you expect.
* Will not work if have not already done so truthfully and sincerely, it is easy to detect forgery
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[7] Bookmark names of the interview.
* Save the name and repeated use during the talk and the other person will treat you with the utmost affection.
[8] Keep your smile.
* Smile unspoken sign for others to understand your love and observe them.
* Rejoices when a beautiful smile, but when the most beautiful sad.
* Smile pretty win, but when the most beautiful when you lose.
* Smile pretty when it takes the most beautiful, but when given.
These eight arts help you in dealing with people and influence them … I hope to obtain this topic INTEREST
